15 Signs That You Might Be In An Abusive Relationship
- Stop you seeing friends and family - lockdowns and social distancing
- Won’t let you go out without permission - lockdowns
- Tell you what to wear - mask mandates
- Monitor your phone or emails - government surveillance, tracking and tracing
- Control the finances or won’t let you work - forced closures of business, taxes
- Control what you read, watch, and say - controlled media and Internet censorship
- Monitor everything you do - Government surveillance
- Punish you for breaking the rules, but the rules keep changing - the ever changing rules, mandates, and restrictions…
- Tell you It is for your own good and they know better - They have told us it is for our own safety, for the greater good, and to trust the science and the “experts”.
- Don’t allow you to question it - any questioning of the official narrative is violently attacked, ridiculed, and silenced.
- Tell you you’re crazy and no one agrees with you - smearing people as “conspiracy theorists”, “alt-right”, “right wing”, etc. in the attempt to dismiss your points based on ad hominem attacks and discrediting you as crazy.
- Call you names or shame you for being stupid or selfish - saying that those who refuse to comply are stupid, ignorant, selfish, killing grandma, etc.
- Gaslight you, challenge your memory of events, make you doubt yourself - …
- Dismiss your opinion - ….
- Play the victim if things go wrong, it’s all your fault. - “It’s your fault that we're locked down for over a year it's your fault that we have so many cases and deaths, it's your fault, because you're not following the rules because you're not complying complying.”
2020 & 2021 Have Fully Exposed An Already Long-standing Abusive Dynamic
The government had always been this abusive. We'd always been in this abusive relationship with a tyrannical government, but it just became ratcheted up to maximum. During the COVID situation. Everything became quite obvious for those with eyes to see.
Victims & Perpetrators Need One Another
Remember, the abuse can only continue as long as the victim acts as the victim and allows it to continue. It takes two to tango.
Victims and Perpetrators need each other. They are two sides of the same coin.
Stockholm Syndrome
Many people are are still stuck in this cycle of abuse. They're still identifying with their abuser, they're still making excuses, they're still following their orders. They're still saying, “but he loves me, and he wants the best for me!”
First you must realize that you are in an abusive relationship Most people have no idea They are trauma-bonded - it is the only reality they know, the only love they know
Many people are too traumatized to question things, to propagandized and brainwashed, to confused.
Stockholm syndrome - identifying with your kidnapper and defending them and your own imprisonment
Leaving An Abusive Relationship
How much abuse most people take before they break out of the relationship before they snap out of the spell of hypnosis and realize what has been going on? How much abuse, do people have to take from their governments before they wake up and realize that government is the problem? Government itself is the problem, not the type of government, not the people in the government. But the government itself, and not just government but authority itself.
The idea that we have this control system. This elite class, who controls everything of importance in our world, the money. The corporations, the governments, the military, the intelligence agencies. The religious centers of religious power, the media, pharmaceutical industry and medical industry, academia, and education, that the root problem is this authority, this control structure. This worldwide group of people who have been pulling the strings behind the scenes.
How much more abuse do people have to take before they wake up before they question whether the experts in the authorities and the institutions and the systems in our world really are aligned with truth?
Transcending the Need For Government & Authority
We can only be free and sovereign when we mature beyond victimhood, beyond looking outside of ourselves, beyond disempowerment to self-empowerment. Beyond fear-based consciousness to live and joy based consciousness
Beyond thinking we need government at all Self-government Truly being our own governments - because all human governments have served to keep humanity enslaved.
Self-Responsibility or Other-Responsibility
It seems the world is splitting in two distinct groups. Those who are choosing to remain in an abusive relationship, who choose to remain childish and want a government, mommy, daddy, and so will remain slaves who run remain on free.
And on the other side are the people who are choosing to be self empowered self responsible for choosing freedom. Choosing to evolve. Choosing to mature into adulthood as a human being and as a species.
This split is so wide, and the Coronavirus situation has exposed exactly where everyone stands. Exactly what everyone is choosing exactly what everyone values exactly what everyone defines to be true and believes to be real, it's separating the wheat from the chaff. The children from the adults, free from the slaves. The sheep from the lions.